Neil Wilkie


Neil is a relationship expert, author and qualified psychotherapist, with an extensive business background. After three failed attempts at traditional relationship counselling during an earlier marriage, he saw the need for a more focused and supportive approach.

He’s since worked with hundreds of couples over the last twelve years to help them move from a place of despair and unhappiness to one of closeness and harmony. The common themes and patterns that emerged during these sessions with couples provided the foundation for The Relationship Paradigm, his extraordinary approach that is proven to reconnect couples who have drifted apart. His first book, Reset – Finding a new course after drifting apart was published in January 2020 and there are nine more to come.  His online course is going live in October 2020.

He believes that one of the greatest gifts in life is a loving and fulfilling relationship with another person.  His mission is to Impact and Improve 10 million relationships around the world in this decade.

How to Spice up Your Sex Life

How to Spice up Your Sex Life

Questions that Couples rarely ask each other are:  How good is our sex life? Give an honest calibration out of 10 for quality and quantity. What am I not doing that you would like me to do? What am I doing that you would like more of? What am I doing that you would...