by Neil Wilkie | February 2021 | Neil Wilkie, Relationships
Dreams have become deeper and more vivid during lockdown. These are being called ‘Quarandreams’ Dreams are the natural and safe way that our brain uses to process thoughts, memories and possibilities to make sense of them. The brain can then let the detail fade away...
by Neil Wilkie | January 2021 | Neil Wilkie, Relationships
A relationship can be the most wonderful thing in the world. It can start magically but it requires a significant investment of time and energy to keep it vibrant. Here are 12 major challenges for you to address. 1. Communication Many couples drift apart...
by Neil Wilkie | December 2020 | Emotions, Neil Wilkie, Relationships
Lockdown is a time where the disrupted world will unleash a whole range of emotions. These are likely to be heightened by the continuing uncertainty and lack of control. Lockdown 2.0 is worse in many ways than the first because the novelty has worn off, the days are...
by Neil Wilkie | November 2020 | Neil Wilkie, Sex
Questions that Couples rarely ask each other are: How good is our sex life? Give an honest calibration out of 10 for quality and quantity. What am I not doing that you would like me to do? What am I doing that you would like more of? What am I doing that you would...
by Neil Wilkie | October 2020 | Addiction, Neil Wilkie, Relationships
We have a clear understanding of what an affair is and this normally involves sex. Emotional affairs do not involve sex but can be even more damaging. What is an Emotional Affair? An emotional affair between two people is a relationship with the closeness and...
