
A Guiding Hand
A Guiding Hand is a set of cards taken from a book entitled ‘A guiding light’, in which these words and phrases are married together with images of the Northern Lights. These two aids – the set of cards and its sister book - emerged from a 10-year pilgrimage to the Artic Circle where I observed, photographed, and continually marvelled at the wonder that are the the Lights – the Aurora Borealis.
The words on each of the cards felt gifted and came from moments of deep contemplation whilst observing The Lights. I hope you will recognise how these few words and phrases and their associated images, are very pertinent to our present-day challenges and may offer insight and both personal and professional guidance.
My motivation in writing this blog came from a personal wish to further reflect upon and to translate these words and phrases into more practical guidance and so I wanted to deeply mine their value and aspire to discover and reveal their meaning.
I found myself one day deeply reflecting on all our lives as positive psychology practitioners today - and I decided to choose one of the cards – so I drew a single card from the pack – and proceeded then to write my first blog – letting these words inspire and reveal their practical guidance for the coach and coachee.
Having written one blog or conversation, I then decided to draw one card each week and repeat the process and each and every time of drawing the card, I held all of you and also myself in mind.
Maybe never more have we needed or sought a guiding hand, as in our present times in facing a myriad of personal and professional challenges as well as the crises and catastrophes of our times. My single intent and wish is to offer you through these weekly conversations … one such guiding hand.
Guiding Hand Cards
Courage – Fear unmasked
Choose to be original or copy
Anxiety – The extent to which we stray from our essence
Belonging, becoming the person you long to be
Might the something more we strive to find, be who we long to become
What we accept in ourselves, we can accommodate in others
Resilience, befriending suffering
Must we stray from the path, to recall our way
Do We Feed An Insatiable Appetite Or Soothe The Part That Hungers
Free From Logic, The Impossible Becomes Quite Plausible
Soul – That Which Longs To Live, Unhindered By Must, Should Or Ought
The Exit We Seek May Be An Entrance
Might Darkness Lighten Our Way
Trying Less, Discovering More
Stillness Moves
Knowing What Locks, Frees
Vulnerability – The Lost Piece That Completes Our Jigsaw
Perfection – The Only Goal We Complete After Life
We Live Superficial Lives, Longing For Depth
True Power Is Realised In Letting Go Of Control
Finding The Answer Be Relinquishing The Search
Wisdom – Intelligence Of Whole Unhindered By What We Know In Part
To Quicken, First Slow
At The Heart Of Winter The Promise Of Spring
Silence Fills As We Empty
In The Dark Confines Of The Chrysalis We Hatch Our Wings

























