by Neil Wilkie | November, 2020 | Neil Wilkie, Sex
Questions that Couples rarely ask each other are: How good is our sex life? Give an honest calibration out of 10 for quality and quantity. What am I not doing that you would like me to do? What am I doing that you would like more of? What am I doing that you would like less of? Sex is part of the fundamental connection between a couple that is one of the key elements of a great relationship. Sex life is so important that I am amazed at how few are able to talk about what they would like. It is often a significant source of unspoken frustration and resentment and becomes the elephant in the room. 1. Talk about what you would like The starting point is to have a conversation about your current sex life and what you would like to be different in the future. Without having an open and honest conversation you both may be trapped in a future of misunderstanding and frustration. This is really important to both of you, so be brave and open the door to a future of sexual satisfaction by: Creating the time and space where you can have an intimate conversation free of interruptions; maybe going out for a walk, having a romantic donner or just sitting in a beautiful space. Take a deep breath and tell your partner that you would like to talk about your sex life and how to make it even better (if that is possible) Focus on feelings and remove blame from the conversation Tell them that you love them (if you do!)...
