This is a brief exploration into emotions, and how they relate to our daily experiences. We often don’t pay much attention to them, unless they are so strong we feel overwhelmed. It may feel as though they have a life of their own, but is that really the case?...
Making friends with your inner critic: Turning your inner critic into your inner mentor
This blog is about our inner critic, and gives some suggestions on how we can use this for a positive approach to self-compassion. Being aware of the critic We all know what it’s like to hear the sound of our inner critic, giving us a hard time or warning us off...
Do you use your strengths to hide self-esteem issues?
This blog will look at how a positive action, such as using our strengths, can also create an illusion of being psychologically healthy when we use them to protect a very vulnerable self-esteem issue. Understanding strengths Character strengths are a central theme...
Moments of Envy- Into Positive Action
This blog will look at the emotion of envy. We have all had times when we look at what other people have achieved and feel that pang of envy. We try and brush off our feelings, even feel ashamed of ourselves. We might even hope that everything goes wrong for that...
Three Steps to Compassion
Three steps to compassion; reinventing the Serenity Prayer This blog will explore what we mean by compassion, and see how it might be applied to the well known ‘serenity prayer’. By understanding compassion in this way we can start to see that...
Positive Psychology and the Discomfort of Change
“The only thing constant is change” Heraclitus Each and every day we are subject to the vagaries of our world. However much we may want to keep what we have constant, we have to accept that we are all subject to continuous change. Most changes are gradual...
Is there such a thing as ‘mindful hope’
Hope can be defined as the difference between where we are now and where we want to be. Our hopes are not guaranteed, but we think there is a chance that what we want could happen. It requires us to project our thoughts into the future to visualise a change. Hope...






