What Will You Do with Your One Wild and Precious Life?
What would your answer be to this question? Gardening, jam making, crown bowling, reading books? Or perhaps you’re like many women who, out of necessity or choice, will continue working into their 70s and beyond? While these may be valuable and rewarding ways to spend your time, have you ever thought there might be a more exhilarating and ambitious alternative?
Have you always had a dream or goal that seemed just out of reach due to lack of time, opportunity, responsibilities, or finances? Is it too late to revisit those dreams now?
When Diana Nyad was faced with this question at age 60, she chose to attempt a non-stop swim from Cuba to Florida—a gruelling 110-mile journey. Facing ocean currents, thunderstorms, deadly box jellyfish and sharks, she had to confront the ultimate question: could she accomplish at age 60 what she couldn’t at age 30?
While I won’t spoil the outcome, I do recommend the film ‘Nyad,’ which captures her incredible story starring Annette Benning and Jodie Foster
So, what about you? We all have an unlived life—paths we might have taken if we hadn’t chosen our current one. What might we have tried? Who might we have become? Who might we still become?
Is it too late to acquire a new skill, learn a new language, play an instrument, go backpacking, dance or gain a qualification? Only you can decide. But if self-limiting beliefs, lack of confidence, or motivation are the only hurdles stopping you, then perhaps it’s time to think again.
Choosing a positive role model can profoundly influence your journey. Research shows that role models not only demonstrate what’s possible but can also inspire and motivate you to reach your full potential.
Remember, you don’t need to be the best, but you can always strive to be your best—no matter your age.
If you’re looking for a challenge, why not explore The Challenge Hub? It’s the place to –
‘join others living their lives to the fullest’
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References
Bosone, L., Martinez, F., & Kalampalikis, N. (2015). When the Model Fits the Frame: The Impact of Regulatory Fit on Efficacy Appraisal and Persuasion in Health Communication. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 41(4), 526-539. https://doi.org/10.1177/0146167215571089
Morgenroth, T., Ryan, M. K., & Peters, K. (2015). The Motivational Theory of Role Modeling: How Role Models Influence Role Aspirants’ Goals. Review of General Psychology, 19(4), 465-483. https://doi.org/10.1037/gpr0000059
Lesley Lyle (MAPP) is a member of the Board of Advisors and Advocate for The Challenge Hub.
This completely resonates. The period after children leave home calls for massive reinvention – it’s a brilliant opportunity for new adventures but can also be a threat if you don’t step up to the challenge.
The Challenge Hub seems to offer a structure and motivation to think positively. A great initiative.