This morning I came across your great article on forgiveness, and overall it points in the same direction as the key elements of my meditation approach: gratitude, forgiveness, and accountability.

The way I was raised and socialized as a young boy and teenager, forgiveness always sounded akin to weakness. Men are not allowed to show weakness, and one will not be forgiven for such a character flaw.

It would be many years later that I would learn a far greater truth: forgiveness is one of the greatest pillars of personal strength to raise our consciousness as we journey and grow in life with an open heart and open mind.

Personally, I took a deep dive to understand this truth revealed to me through meditation and spiritual exploration. It became clear to me that as one journeys through the deeper layers of forgiveness, the true strength of our mind, thoughts, feelings and actions in how we interact with others and the world further widen the capability of forgiveness.

To be clear, I don’t attend church, and I’m not religious. But as I was discussing forgiveness with a friend, a thought came to me: This is what Jesus understood and tried to share as well. He was trying to enlighten people. with forgiveness, and show them it can be their greatest strength and ally in their life. 

Whether it comes from Ghandi, Mother Teresa, or Jesus, here is an enlightened path; it’s our choice to walk it. 

Your article breaks down several elements for people to digest more easily. I think there is much more say about forgiveness. Please keep up the good work.

Best Regards,

Bridger Newman