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		<title>The Imitation Game</title>
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<p>Meeting Alan Turing today, would you see a brilliantly talented man or a weird eccentric loner?</p>
<p>For those of you who haven’t seen this film, it is about a brilliantly clever mathematician who breaks an ‘impossible’ encrypted German code, ultimately leading to the Allies winning the war.  It is estimated that the breaking of the “enigma” code led to the war being shortened by 2 years saving 14 million lives.  Benedict Cumberbatch stars as Alan Turing, the man who is credited for breaking the code.</p>
<p>The mood of the film was uplifting and inspirational and for me, there were central themes of strength, resilience and diversity.   It also made me wonder about the price of being different, gifted or genius?</p>
<p>Alan Turing is a man who has traits often associated with conditions such as Aspergers or Autism.   He admits he cannot read social cues and he responds quite literally to peoples words;  for instance his colleague says to him one day; “we’re going to lunch” in a tone indicating he is asking Alan to join them.   After repeating the statement two or three times, without Alan answering, he asks if he has offended Alan.   Alan looks surprised and replies no and explains that because no-one asked him a question , he didn’t offer a reply.   In many ways, a logical response to the words being said in the situation.   In Alan’s life his love of codes and solving puzzles came from his ability to understand the clarity of words, within the confusion that came when he tried to translate subtle nuances like social cues which are often unclear to him.  Alan loves the logic of codes and words.</p>
<p>Somewhere along the line, despite all the bullying and loneliness of his childhood, Alan still finds the courage to find out who he is, what he is good at and what he loves to do.   He learnt code at a young age and he and his friend, Christopher used to pass notes in code in class.   His ability to persevere, focus solely on one task and get lost in puzzles as kind of flow-type experiences, led to him to excel at Maths, attend Cambridge University and talk his way into a job at Bletchley Park with a team who are trying to break the German Enigma Code and so win the war by interpreting German war strategy.</p>
<p>Alan is lacking social skills, a loner and seen as eccentric, rude and arrogant.   But he is also mathematically brilliant, authentic, logical, and doggedly perseverant to his goal of cracking the code.  It takes others to recognise these strengths for Alan to thrive and flourish which he does when working at Bletchley. Commander Denniston (played by Charles Dance) and Joan Clarke (played by Keira Knightly) both saw the genius in Alan although especially for the Commander it was hard to accept Alan at times as he wasn’t always easy to like.    For Alan, working on the hardest puzzle in the world was the most enjoyable task and we see how he experiences Flow type experiences during this time, where the challenge of the task was equal to his skill (Csikszentmihalyi, 1989).  We see him working on the £100K Home Office funded code cracking machine called Christopher, for hours on end, totally focussed and engaged on the task in hand.</p>
<p>It is clear whilst working at Bletchley, his resilience and perseverance are strong because he is doing what he loves.  We see him flourish, able to face and overcome some of his weaknesses such as learning to work with others, and harness his strengths fully in work where he is fully engaged.   He does not stop until he has solved the puzzle and whatever gets in his way, he bounces back and perseveres until the job is complete.</p>
<p>Later in the film after the code is cracked and he has left the Bletchley team we see him arrested for homosexuality, chemically castrated and find out that he committed suicide at the age of 41.   There is a touching scene at the end between him and Joan (Keira Knightly) where he is suffering physically due to the medication for chemical castration, as well as emotionally and seems to have lost any joy or purpose in his life.    I wondered at this point whether his resilience was weakened to that extent before he commits suicide mainly because he is no longer doing what he loves and so feels no sense of purpose or contribution – he is unable to work in his field anymore after his arrest.  He admits to Joan he has chosen chemical castration over prison because in prison he cannot work.</p>
<p>Perhaps it is difficult for society to see people’s strength when the person is difficult to like. His lack of social skills made him unpopular and he also lacked empathy and connection to others.  We see him ruthlessly firing two members of his team, deciding not to intervene when his co-worker’s brother is being sent to his death, and terminating his engagement to his fiancé Joan, fairly brutally.</p>
<p>I wondered, does a person need to be liked for them to be allowed to contribute in the best way they can?  Is popularity more important than authenticity and allowing people to be who they are and contribute in the best way they can?.    Also in the modern 21st century, would Alan even have got the job giving him the chance to crack one of the hardest codes of all time?  I suspect these days if he didn’t get on with his team or superiors or display the social intelligence and teamwork desired by corporations, he wouldn’t get a look-in.  The political and media driven context of many modern corporations mean saying the right thing at the right time is even more important to big organizations and Alan would have struggled with these confusing political environments, which means in this day and age we may have never watched a film about the brilliance of Alan Turing.</p>
<p>I felt so much empathy for Alan in the film and it made me wonder what makes us happy and what could have made him happy?  It made me think about other geniuses like Robin Williams who also committed suicide recently and wonder why they committed suicide?   I wonder was there something that we could have done either individually or as a society to prevent their suffering and early deaths?     Diener &amp; Seligman (2002) found that one factor that was different in very happy people compared with less happy people was their involvement in social relationships.  So what if someone’s strength is not their ability to form social relationships?  What then?  Is it best to help them get better at what is not a natural strength or to create a society which embraces a variety of strengths and accepts peoples strengths and limitations?  There is a point in the film where Joan encourages Alan to try a little harder at being likeable and he manages to win over his team who ultimately help Alan to crack the code.   Perhaps we need to also manage our weaknesses if they are getting in the way of us being able to utilize our strengths and achieve our dreams.</p>
<p>I think if we can learn to recognize strength in self and others, it will help us to embrace difference.  It’s about accepting that we all have different strengths and we need to try and value what people bring, more than what they don’t bring.   Although this story was back in 1941 when homosexuality was illegal, but chemical castration was legal, I still don’t feel we would treat Alan much differently in 2015.  The laws might be different but until we recognise how much people can offer, that we are all different and start to realise that people have strengths and weaknesses, thousands of people like Alan will feel totally alone and alienated and unable to offer and contribute to the world as Alan Turing did in this story.</p>
<p>Perhaps it is a shift in focus.  Perhaps we can start by doing small things.   Don’t judge too quickly.  See if you can find at least one strength in someone you don’t like.   Consciously look for strengths instead of weakness and change the proportion of strengths you notice compared to weaknesses.  I know, with some people if feels difficult!   Try and think of situations where people’s weaknesses could be a strength.  For instance lacking empathy was helpful to Alan when he fired 2 members of the team that were holding them back and recruited people who helped to lead them to success.</p>
<p>If you meet an Alan today, look for his strength and value and situations where he could make a positive difference.  Notice if he’s happy and engaged, because if he’s not he’s probably not using his strengths.  If he appears “odd” look for the strength that comes with that difference.     Be the person that brings out the brilliance and potential in people like Alan.  We’re not going to change how we interact overnight but a small change in focus could make a big difference.</p>
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		<title>The Theory of Everything</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Aug 2014 11:55:38 +0000</pubDate>
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<p><strong>Did having a sense of purpose and love in his life extend Stephen Hawking’s life beyond all medical expectations? </strong></p>
<p>I’m not sure who I’m writing this review for. You may be a Positive Psychologist interested in the psychological ideas within The Theory of Everything. You may be someone who has watched the films and wants to discuss what inspired you. Also, I’m wondering if there are some people who have never seen the film and want to decide whether to watch it. I am unsure of the existence of the latter group, as so many people seem to have watched this film and know about the life works of Stephen Hawking.</p>
<p>There was so much that was inspirational about this film. I’ll start with the premise of the story.   About a young brilliant scientist, Stephen Hawking, who discovers he has a progressive illness, a form of motor neurone disease whilst at University.   The horrific nature of the illness and its slow debilitation so that the patient gradually loses control over their ability to walk, move and talk, is stark within the film, but just as stark is Hawking’s desire to not only overcome this challenge but to not have it as the main focus in his life.</p>
<p>For me this film is partly about meaning and purpose and partly about love.   It is clear throughout the film that there is a greater meaning and purpose to Stephen’s life than his condition. The disease for him seems to be a major obstacle he has to put up with, but he never takes his eyes off his dream, his work, his ambitions, his goal. His goal is to find a simple equation that explains everything, the start of the universe, our existence, our world; the Theory of Everything.   Wong (2011) talks of the four pillars of Positive Psychology, meaning and purpose being one. Having a sense of purpose is on one level about having goals and ambitions but on a deeper level relates to our existential values and what really matters in life, and is about committing to something higher than oneself. When asked about which research he believes to be true, Stephen replies “it is irrelevant what I believe” inferring that his research is not about his values but something more important and more impartial than him or his beliefs.</p>
<p>He and Jane, his wife seem to experience tension around the issue of Christianity where Stephen is an atheist and feels that the belief in God or the supernatural goes against scientific findings, whereas Jane is a Christian. In my view, Stephen has more in common with religious people than one might think. He is driven by a higher purpose than himself, his research aims to discover the very essence of life and why we and the universe exists, perhaps in a similar way to religion, asking the question; why are we here?   I wonder if Stephen had not had his life works and this sense of purpose to keep him going, whether it would have affected his resilience and ability to cope with his condition? Some research shows that religious people are happier and I am sure that Stephen was happier in his life for finding this sense of purpose, for feeling his major contribution and legacy to the world. I think Stephen may be conflicted about the meaning of existence and the big questions he is asking. I think it might not be coincidental he married a woman who was not only a Christian but who specialised and loved the arts, the opposite of himself as an atheist and with a love of science.   He did recognise religion within his scientific explanations. For instance he talks about the “mind of god” as something we can discover through the theory of everything, much to Jane’s pleasure as she sees this as an acknowledgement that God exists within his research. His sense of purpose and how it affects his wellbeing reminds me of the role played by Benedict Cumberbatch in the Imitation Game, whose life was so much richer from a sense of purpose he felt by attempting to crack an impossible code to help England to win the war. When he lost this sense of purpose his wellbeing was affected in a very negative way.</p>
<p>The film made me think of Science in a new way. I have always been dis-interested in Science but the film and subsequent reading about Hawking has made me wonder if Science can explain things about our existence that I hadn’t realised before. Why are we here? What is our purpose? Where did it all begin?   These are questions many of us are interested in and yet people do not always turn to Science for the answers, but perhaps the disciplines of philosophy, psychology or history. I have always thought Science is about the way things work where I have little interest, but I hadn’t thought about it explaining why we are here, how and why we live, learning more about our world and the universe.   In the film, we see Hawking talking about his philosophy in life and his wonder and awe about the universe having “no boundary” and how this is similar to the potential of human endevour. I will definitely now buy Hawking’s book “The Brief History of Time” and see what I can find out about the link between Science and this type of philosophy.</p>
<p>The other agent acting as a catalyst for Stephen’s accomplishments was love.   Maybe I’m an old romantic but I believe in the power of love and how it can redeem us and change our course in life which would not have been the same if we hadn’t had that love there. Towards the end of the film Stephen looks at Jane whilst watching his children running around, and says “Look what we made”.   The love between the couple helped Stephen carry on in the dark times especially just after he was diagnosed when he felt like giving up and pushing everyone he loved away. Fortunately Jane wouldn’t let him. When diagnosed Stephen was told he had 2 years to live and that his brain would be unaffected but he wouldn’t be able to share his thoughts with anyone. For someone with a burning question that he wanted to answer and share with the world, the film shows us how torturous this was for Stephen.   But Jane shows love and care that many would find difficult or impossible under such difficult circumstances. To care tirelessly for someone in that way is something that most of us can’t imagine – that almost unconditional selfless love for another where their needs are greater than our own.   The love between the two of them is explained so sensitively through the film and for me, this may have been the catalyst that gave us the scientific teachings of Stephen Hawking. Without Jane by his side and the love he found with her and the great joy that were his children, would Stephen have found the strength to carry on and accomplish the things that he did?</p>
<p>There is research that says that people with high levels of wellbeing live 7.5 years longer, so I wonder, did having sense of purpose and love in his life help Stephen to defy the doctor’s predictions and live many decades of life instead of the predicted two?   Can having love and meaning in your life aid a long happy life even with grave disease?</p>
<p>Stephen Hawking lived his life in wonder and awe of humanity and the science behind our existence and the creation of the universe. He didn’t need religion to give him this sense of purpose or meaning or wonder or awe in life, but he found it in the world around him and in other people. He believed that what we were capable of was incredible and that we all have potential. His view of life is a philosophy in itself. Here in the opening of the Paralympic games, he describes this philosophy and for me, this brilliant scientist has much in common with us positive psychologists and our studies on human strengths, happiness, our great potential and the meaning and purpose of our lives:</p>
<p><strong>“Look up at the stars and not down at your feet. Try to make sense of what you see, and wonder about what makes the Universe exist. Be curious</strong><strong><em>. There ought to be something special about the boundary conditions of the Universe, and what can be more special than that there is no boundary?...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>And</em></strong><strong> there should be no boundary to human endeavour. </strong><strong><em>…</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>We are all different, there is no such thing as a standard or run-of-the-mill human being, but we share the same human spirit.  What is important is that we have the ability to create. This creativity can take many forms, from physical achievement to theoretical physics.  However difficult life may seem, there is always something you can do and succeed at.” Stephen Hawking, Paraolympic Opening Ceremony</strong></p>
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